Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Easier Said Than Done

'The goal of marriage is not to think alike but to think together.'
--Robert Dodds

6 Comments:

At 12:01 PM, Anonymous Mike Q said...

Actually, I do better by not thinking at all ....

 
At 12:16 PM, Blogger John Ettorre said...

That made me laugh, Mike.

 
At 3:35 PM, Blogger Diane Vogel Ferri said...

Love it - and what a relief - because we've never thought the same on anything!

 
At 3:42 PM, Blogger John Ettorre said...

Glad you're relieved, Diane. Lord knows, there are enough other things out there to keep us agitated and concerned. Marriage ought to be a refuge from all that.

 
At 2:27 AM, Anonymous Donna said...

Next month, we'll be married for 18 years. I think we do think a lot alike and I'm not always sure that is a good thing. While it is comforting to have a person who really understands you, a different perspective can sometimes be helpful too.

I'm not complaining, though, because I think one of the great comforts of marriage is when we don't demand perfection of each other. It's all about a gentle nudging toward what we really need - and that changes over time.

I think that whole for better or worse thing speaks to importance of adaptability and patience.

 
At 9:28 AM, Blogger John Ettorre said...

You've made a number of crucial points here, Donna, which I couldn't agree with more. Thanks for that valuable addition.

 

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